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Can Spirituality and BDSM Exist Together?

I received a very thoughtful question from one of my readers about spirituality and its relationship with sex, kink, and BDSM. I thought I'd share the exchange (with permission) for others to see. Maybe it can provide some insight. Her Question: Hi Jeff! My name is . I live in . I am a wife and mom and also a…
Jeff Finley
September 15, 2020
Love & Relationships

Professional Cuddling & Sexual Healing

I've been doing quite a bit of research and experimenting with desire and the guilt that I often carry with it. Two people who have inspired me lately is Marcia B and Betty Martin. I have recently read Richard Unger's book Lifeprints, and determined how my fingerprints relate to my life lessons. (Read this post about my rare palms.) Sure enough, when…
Jeff Finley
July 26, 2016
Love & Relationships

Physical Attraction is So Weird

I've been so fascinated with physical attraction these days. You know, chemistry, sparks, crushes, and butterflies. That sorta thing. Why do I feel that with one woman I'd consider "cute" but not with one I'd consider "hot." I could even feel tingly after just a single picture and never hearing her voice or meeting her in person to experience her…
Jeff Finley
June 29, 2016
Love & Relationships

Relationships Are a Reflection of You

I've been reflecting on the short love relationship I recently ended. I learned a lot about how I was not respecting myself, enduring painful triggers because I thought it was "good for me" to help me learn. But it was a few dreams that really gave me some insightful clarity. The first dream was about a female friend of mine that left me feeling ignored…
Jeff Finley
May 23, 2016
Love & Relationships

32 Self-Date Ideas

After the breakup, all I could was think about her. I contacted lots of friends and realized I was kinda running away from myself. My thoughts went from, "how do I win her back" to "how do I take care of myself." Messages, videos, and books started flooding into my awareness. The song "Me, Myself, and I" came on when…
Jeff Finley
May 10, 2016
Love & Relationships

Breaking Up With Someone You Love

Yesterday I had to break up with a woman who I really love and care about, but the relationship was too triggering for me to continue any longer. I am very sad to end what was a short (one month) but extremely deep emotional, spiritual, and physical connection. We fell in love, but she was scared of committing to me…
Jeff Finley
April 24, 2016
Love & Relationships

Sensitive as Fuck: Three Weaknesses Exposed

I've been hanging out more with my new Austin lover and most of the time it's really inspiring and positive. But the connection is so deep and psychic that she sees me and my weaknesses like nobody else. It's kinda scary! She reflects back to me areas that I know are important for me to grow and heal. For example here are…
Jeff Finley
April 4, 2016
EsotericLove & Relationships

The Shift is Happening

This week things have been shifting for me. Every since I had I my conversation with money, which turned into Mother Earth, my life has been full of abundance! It's quite remarkable actually. Starting the day after, I got invited to go dancing at some EDM shows at SXSW here in Austin. My new lady-friend M and I rode bikes…
Jeff Finley
March 21, 2016
Jeff Finley