I received a very thoughtful question from one of my readers about spirituality and its relationship with sex, kink, and BDSM. I thought I’d share the exchange (with permission) for others to see. Maybe it can provide some insight. Her…
So what’s my morning routine like these days? How many hours am I meditating? How many books do I read? Truth is I can’t seem to maintain anything for very long because I respond differently as soon as I get…
I’ve been doing quite a bit of research and experimenting with desire and the guilt that I often carry with it. Two people who have inspired me lately is Marcia B and Betty Martin. I have recently read Richard Unger‘s book…
I’ve been so fascinated with physical attraction these days. You know, chemistry, sparks, crushes, and butterflies. That sorta thing. Why do I feel that with one woman I’d consider “cute” but not with one I’d consider “hot.” I could even…
I’ve been reflecting on the short love relationship I recently ended. I learned a lot about how I was not respecting myself, enduring painful triggers because I thought it was “good for me” to help me learn. But it was a few dreams…
After the breakup, all I could was think about her. I contacted lots of friends and realized I was kinda running away from myself. My thoughts went from, “how do I win her back” to “how do I take care…
Yesterday I had to break up with a woman who I really love and care about, but the relationship was too triggering for me to continue any longer. I am very sad to end what was a short (one month)…
I’ve been hanging out more with my new Austin lover and most of the time it’s really inspiring and positive. But the connection is so deep and psychic that she sees me and my weaknesses like nobody else. It’s kinda scary! She…
This week things have been shifting for me. Every since I had I my conversation with money, which turned into Mother Earth, my life has been full of abundance! It’s quite remarkable actually. Starting the day after, I got invited…
I was trying not to complain too hard to my friend about my money situation. I felt embarrassed to even complain because nobody is forcing me to work for myself and make a living doing what I love. My privilege…
