Twin Flames: What Are They Really?
A reader emailed me and asked if I had any thoughts on Twin Flames. It turns out I do. I asked her if she had any specific questions and she sent me this: I started to write a blog post…
Category Love & Relationships
Can Spirituality and BDSM Exist Together?
I received a very thoughtful question from one of my readers about spirituality and its relationship with sex, kink, and BDSM. I thought I’d share the exchange (with permission) for others to see. Maybe it can provide some insight. Her…
What My Self Love Practice Looks Like These Days
So what’s my morning routine like these days? How many hours am I meditating? How many books do I read? Truth is I can’t seem to maintain anything for very long because I respond differently as soon as I get…
Professional Cuddling & Sexual Healing
I’ve been doing quite a bit of research and experimenting with desire and the guilt that I often carry with it. Two people who have inspired me lately is Marcia B and Betty Martin. I have recently read Richard Unger‘s book…
Physical Attraction is So Weird
I’ve been so fascinated with physical attraction these days. You know, chemistry, sparks, crushes, and butterflies. That sorta thing. Why do I feel that with one woman I’d consider “cute” but not with one I’d consider “hot.” I could even…
Relationships Are a Reflection of You
I’ve been reflecting on the short love relationship I recently ended. I learned a lot about how I was not respecting myself, enduring painful triggers because I thought it was “good for me” to help me learn. But it was a few dreams…
32 Self-Date Ideas
After the breakup, all I could was think about her. I contacted lots of friends and realized I was kinda running away from myself. My thoughts went from, “how do I win her back” to “how do I take care…
Breaking Up With Someone You Love
Yesterday I had to break up with a woman who I really love and care about, but the relationship was too triggering for me to continue any longer. I am very sad to end what was a short (one month)…
Sensitive as Fuck: Three Weaknesses Exposed
I’ve been hanging out more with my new Austin lover and most of the time it’s really inspiring and positive. But the connection is so deep and psychic that she sees me and my weaknesses like nobody else. It’s kinda scary! She…
The Shift is Happening
This week things have been shifting for me. Every since I had I my conversation with money, which turned into Mother Earth, my life has been full of abundance! It’s quite remarkable actually. Starting the day after, I got invited…
