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Maker/Mistaker Audiobook Released

In 2013 I started a blog called Maker/Mistaker to write about my self development journey. What started with me opening up about my depression led to a mind-blowing journey of self-development, spiritual awakenings, astral projection, and healing. I closed the blog in 2016 to work on other things and moved all my articles to my jefffinley.org site. But here's the…
Jeff Finley
April 1, 2018
Personal Growth

It Feels Like Things are Coming to an End

This past month has been like a 180 from wherever I thought I was going. In my last post, I was talking about becoming a professional cuddler or sexual healer. Well, that's not happening any time soon and I'm not really that interested anymore. It's like the enthusiasm suddenly vanished over the past month and a half. I've found myself much…
Jeff Finley
September 26, 2016
Love & Relationships

Professional Cuddling & Sexual Healing

I've been doing quite a bit of research and experimenting with desire and the guilt that I often carry with it. Two people who have inspired me lately is Marcia B and Betty Martin. I have recently read Richard Unger's book Lifeprints, and determined how my fingerprints relate to my life lessons. (Read this post about my rare palms.) Sure enough, when…
Jeff Finley
July 26, 2016
Love & Relationships

Physical Attraction is So Weird

I've been so fascinated with physical attraction these days. You know, chemistry, sparks, crushes, and butterflies. That sorta thing. Why do I feel that with one woman I'd consider "cute" but not with one I'd consider "hot." I could even feel tingly after just a single picture and never hearing her voice or meeting her in person to experience her…
Jeff Finley
June 29, 2016
Esoteric

Rare Hands: Palmistry & The Simian Line

My friend took me to a palm reading event on Monday as sort of a birthday present. (Shoutout to my fellow Geminis!)  The palm reader looked at my hands and said I had a "Simian Line." She called everyone else over too look at my palms and claimed I was a rare exception to the typical palmistry archetypes. Yes, I…
Jeff Finley
June 7, 2016
Love & Relationships

My Experience at a Sex Party

This is a bit edgy for me to share. I feel kinda vulnerable because I'm breaking new ground for myself. I have talked about my sexuality before, but not in this kind of detail. It feels like I'm stepping into more of my authentic self. On Wednesday I found myself naked at a sex party making out with a girl I just…
Jeff Finley
May 31, 2016
Love & Relationships

Relationships Are a Reflection of You

I've been reflecting on the short love relationship I recently ended. I learned a lot about how I was not respecting myself, enduring painful triggers because I thought it was "good for me" to help me learn. But it was a few dreams that really gave me some insightful clarity. The first dream was about a female friend of mine that left me feeling ignored…
Jeff Finley
May 23, 2016
Love & Relationships

32 Self-Date Ideas

After the breakup, all I could was think about her. I contacted lots of friends and realized I was kinda running away from myself. My thoughts went from, "how do I win her back" to "how do I take care of myself." Messages, videos, and books started flooding into my awareness. The song "Me, Myself, and I" came on when…
Jeff Finley
May 10, 2016