sexuality
Can Spirituality and BDSM Exist Together?
I received a very thoughtful question from one of my readers about spirituality and its relationship with sex, kink, and BDSM. I thought I’d share the exchange (with permission) for others to see. Maybe it can provide some insight. Her…
How sexual purity and slut shaming affected me as a man
I just finished reading The Purity Myth, a great book by Jessica Valenti about how “America’s obsession with virginity is hurting young women.” I read it because I have my own issues with purity I’m sorting out. I can’t be…
Leandra Vane – Trophy Wife: Sexuality, Disability, and Femininity (ep 22)
I’m quite excited about this episode of the podcast. I talk with Leandra Vane, author of one of my favorite books Trophy Wife: Sexuality, Disability, Femininity. It might be one of my more “controversial” episodes because we talk openly about sex, porn,…
Love, Sex, and Building my Tribe (ep 12)
A common theme on my trip has been following my heart, surrendering to love, and awakening my sexuality. Yes, my sexuality. And I’m already feeling triggered and embarrassed just mentioning that. In this episode I break down my week on…
Quit Watching Porn in 30 Days
I never thought I’d be the one to create this, but here it is. The past year, I’ve spent considerable effort in quitting bad habits that do not align with my integrity and truth. Quitting porn was inevitable. It was…
The Way of the Superior Man – Beyond Porn-Influenced Sex
I’ve been obsessed with the teachings of David Deida lately. He’s the author of The Way of the Superior Man. I’ve heard a lot about the divine masculine and the suppression of which that men have experience in our generation.…