Twin Flames: What Are They Really?
A reader emailed me and asked if I had any thoughts on Twin Flames. It turns out I do. I asked her if she had any specific questions and she sent me this: I started to write a blog post…
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My Journey Abroad – How I Found the Courage to Travel
I recently got back from a three month solo trip in Europe. It was my first time traveling abroad. There’s a lot I could say about it, but first I need to write about what led up to it, why…
Physical Attraction is So Weird
I’ve been so fascinated with physical attraction these days. You know, chemistry, sparks, crushes, and butterflies. That sorta thing. Why do I feel that with one woman I’d consider “cute” but not with one I’d consider “hot.” I could even…
Relationships Are a Reflection of You
I’ve been reflecting on the short love relationship I recently ended. I learned a lot about how I was not respecting myself, enduring painful triggers because I thought it was “good for me” to help me learn. But it was a few dreams…
Following Your Heart vs Your Mind
How do you know if you’re following your heart vs your mind? Or more broadly, following love vs fear. One thing I’ve noticed more and more lately is that most of my anxiety and fear comes from being too much…
Sensitive as Fuck: Three Weaknesses Exposed
I’ve been hanging out more with my new Austin lover and most of the time it’s really inspiring and positive. But the connection is so deep and psychic that she sees me and my weaknesses like nobody else. It’s kinda scary! She…
Which Attachment Style are You? Anxious, Avoidant or Secure? (ep 21)
: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: Spotify | RSS | MoreIn this episode of the Maker/Mistaker podcast, I welcome April Hannah back on the show to discuss the book Attached – The New Science of Adult Attachment and How…
Is the Fear of “Being Needy” Keeping Us Apart?
One thing I’ve noticed in spiritual and self-help circles is that being needy is bad. Actually, it’s appearing to be needy that’s bad. It’s a really unattractive quality. It’s associated with being “clingy” or “codependent” and it supposedly is a cardinal…
Uncovering “The Truth” about Sex and Relationships with April Hannah (ep 19)
: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: Spotify | RSS | MoreTwo weeks ago I got message from April Hannah, whom you might remember from an older podcast about her Path Documentary Series. She had been listening to some of my…
My Feelings on “The Truth: An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships” (spoilers)
Update: Listen to the podcast I recorded with April Hanna discussing the finer points of this book as well as a female perspective. I just finished The Truth, the latest book from Neil Strauss, and it was one of the…
