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Love & Relationships

Physical Attraction is So Weird

I've been so fascinated with physical attraction these days. You know, chemistry, sparks, crushes, and butterflies. That sorta thing. Why do I feel that with one woman I'd consider "cute" but not with one I'd consider "hot." I could even feel tingly after just a single picture and never hearing her voice or meeting her in person to experience her…
Jeff Finley
June 29, 2016
Love & Relationships

32 Self-Date Ideas

After the breakup, all I could was think about her. I contacted lots of friends and realized I was kinda running away from myself. My thoughts went from, "how do I win her back" to "how do I take care of myself." Messages, videos, and books started flooding into my awareness. The song "Me, Myself, and I" came on when…
Jeff Finley
May 10, 2016
Love & RelationshipsPodcast

Dating and Feeling Restless (ep 15)

This past week I've been feeling restless living at home with my parents. I came here to feel nurtured and comfortable after ending my marriage and working nonstop for 18 years of my life. And while I love my family and am grateful, they know I'm restless. It's nice to have a rent-free place to stay while I travel as…
Jeff Finley
October 8, 2015