Love & Relationships

My Experience at a Sex Party

This is a bit edgy for me to share. I feel kinda vulnerable because I'm breaking new ground for myself. I have talked about my sexuality before, but not in this kind of detail. It feels like I'm stepping into more of my authentic self. On Wednesday I found myself naked at a sex party making out with a girl I just…
Jeff Finley
May 31, 2016
Love & Relationships

Relationships Are a Reflection of You

I've been reflecting on the short love relationship I recently ended. I learned a lot about how I was not respecting myself, enduring painful triggers because I thought it was "good for me" to help me learn. But it was a few dreams that really gave me some insightful clarity. The first dream was about a female friend of mine that left me feeling ignored…
Jeff Finley
May 23, 2016
Love & Relationships

32 Self-Date Ideas

After the breakup, all I could was think about her. I contacted lots of friends and realized I was kinda running away from myself. My thoughts went from, "how do I win her back" to "how do I take care of myself." Messages, videos, and books started flooding into my awareness. The song "Me, Myself, and I" came on when…
Jeff Finley
May 10, 2016
Love & Relationships

Breaking Up With Someone You Love

Yesterday I had to break up with a woman who I really love and care about, but the relationship was too triggering for me to continue any longer. I am very sad to end what was a short (one month) but extremely deep emotional, spiritual, and physical connection. We fell in love, but she was scared of committing to me…
Jeff Finley
April 24, 2016
Esoteric

Following Your Heart vs Your Mind

How do you know if you're following your heart vs your mind? Or more broadly, following love vs fear. One thing I've noticed more and more lately is that most of my anxiety and fear comes from being too much in my head. And then when I can exist more in my "heart" space, I feel more joyful, purposeful, and…
Jeff Finley
April 12, 2016
Love & Relationships

Sensitive as Fuck: Three Weaknesses Exposed

I've been hanging out more with my new Austin lover and most of the time it's really inspiring and positive. But the connection is so deep and psychic that she sees me and my weaknesses like nobody else. It's kinda scary! She reflects back to me areas that I know are important for me to grow and heal. For example here are…
Jeff Finley
April 4, 2016
EsotericLove & Relationships

The Shift is Happening

This week things have been shifting for me. Every since I had I my conversation with money, which turned into Mother Earth, my life has been full of abundance! It's quite remarkable actually. Starting the day after, I got invited to go dancing at some EDM shows at SXSW here in Austin. My new lady-friend M and I rode bikes…
Jeff Finley
March 21, 2016
Love & Relationships

Feeling Emotional Pain is Not Bad

It's been a tough week emotionally, but I'm getting through it. Ever since I've moved to Austin it's like I've been experience rapid-fire life lessons. Lots of stored emotional pain regarding money and loneliness have been bubbling up into my awareness for healing, I have noticed an intuition to continue to follow my heart and face the fear of "going broke" while…
Jeff Finley
March 9, 2016
Love & Relationships

My Divorce

I want to share something that I haven't shared with many people until now. And that is my recent divorce and how I'm dealing with life afterward. But before I get into that I want to remind you that the Maker/Mistaker Anthology ebook comes out tomorrow March 7th. I'm retiring the Maker/Mistaker brand to continue under my real name and I'm…
Jeff Finley
March 6, 2016