This is the full interview I did with The Thirteenth Hour Podcast in July 2017. Host Joshua Blum contacted me to see what I was up to these days and how our old friend Brent Simon is doing. It’s been…
I recently got back from a three month solo trip in Europe. It was my first time traveling abroad. There’s a lot I could say about it, but first I need to write about what led up to it, why…
This past month has been like a 180 from wherever I thought I was going. In my last post, I was talking about becoming a professional cuddler or sexual healer. Well, that’s not happening any time soon and I’m not really…
I’ve been doing quite a bit of research and experimenting with desire and the guilt that I often carry with it. Two people who have inspired me lately is Marcia B and Betty Martin. I have recently read Richard Unger‘s book…
I’ve been so fascinated with physical attraction these days. You know, chemistry, sparks, crushes, and butterflies. That sorta thing. Why do I feel that with one woman I’d consider “cute” but not with one I’d consider “hot.” I could even…
My friend took me to a palm reading event on Monday as sort of a birthday present. (Shoutout to my fellow Geminis!) The palm reader looked at my hands and said I had a “Simian Line”. She called everyone else…
I’ve been reflecting on the short love relationship I recently ended. I learned a lot about how I was not respecting myself, enduring painful triggers because I thought it was “good for me” to help me learn. But it was a few dreams…
After the breakup, all I could was think about her. I contacted lots of friends and realized I was kinda running away from myself. My thoughts went from, “how do I win her back” to “how do I take care…
Yesterday I had to break up with a woman who I really love and care about, but the relationship was too triggering for me to continue any longer. I am very sad to end what was a short (one month)…
How do you know if you’re following your heart vs your mind? Or more broadly, following love vs fear. One thing I’ve noticed more and more lately is that most of my anxiety and fear comes from being too much…
