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Love & Relationships

Love & Relationships

Feeling Emotional Pain is Not Bad

It's been a tough week emotionally, but I'm getting through it. Ever since I've moved to Austin it's like I've been experience rapid-fire life lessons. Lots of stored emotional pain regarding money and loneliness have been bubbling up into my awareness for healing, I have noticed an intuition to continue to follow my heart and face the fear of "going broke" while…
Jeff Finley
March 9, 2016
Love & Relationships

My Divorce

I want to share something that I haven't shared with many people until now. And that is my recent divorce and how I'm dealing with life afterward. But before I get into that I want to remind you that the Maker/Mistaker Anthology ebook comes out tomorrow March 7th. I'm retiring the Maker/Mistaker brand to continue under my real name and I'm…
Jeff Finley
March 6, 2016
Love & RelationshipsPodcast

Leandra Vane – Trophy Wife: Sexuality, Disability, and Femininity (ep 22)

I'm quite excited about this episode of the podcast. I talk with Leandra Vane, author of one of my favorite books Trophy Wife: Sexuality, Disability, Femininity. It might be one of my more "controversial" episodes because we talk openly about sex, porn, disability, kink, BDSM, sexual fantasies, open relationships, fear, shame, and shit. Leandra has a way about her that makes these…
Jeff Finley
December 10, 2015
Love & Relationships

Is the Fear of “Being Needy” Keeping Us Apart?

One thing I've noticed in spiritual and self-help circles is that being needy is bad. Actually, it's appearing to be needy that's bad. It's a really unattractive quality. It's associated with being "clingy" or "codependent" and it supposedly is a cardinal sin in dating or attracting a lover. I did a Google search on this and all I found were videos…
Jeff Finley
November 11, 2015
Love & RelationshipsPodcast

Uncovering “The Truth” about Sex and Relationships with April Hannah (ep 19)

Two weeks ago I got message from April Hannah, whom you might remember from an older podcast about her Path Documentary Series. She had been listening to some of my recent podcast episodes about dating, love, and relationships and reached out to me to relate some of her own ideas. April is a well read and experienced psychotherapist and holistic mental health…
Jeff Finley
November 6, 2015